Sometimes I’m not sure where to start because it seems that these days (actually since Trump took office) every chaotic day is a cornucopia of issues that warrant examining. Sadly, yesterday was George Floyd’s funeral and another day of protests across this country and around the world. The deaths from COVID 19 in the United States surpassed 107,000 and the number of infections hovers around 2 million! Unemployment figures are through the roof and the economy is in shambles. And that is why I have decided to talk about leadership – something the country is sorely in need of and why Donald Trump is not a leader and is not capable of leading this country.
I am not alone in these beliefs. Yesterday, General James Mattis (ret) wrote a scathing rebuke of Trump. Today I read another unprecedented critique from General John Allen (ret), former commander of US Forces in Afghanistan. These men know something about leadership and the Constitution. It is very rare for retired senior military leaders to speak out so forcefully against the Commander-in-Chief. They are concerned and I am concerned and every single American should be concerned about the leadership vacuum during these times and the ongoing threats to our Democracy.
So, what is Trump’s leadership experience? He ran a private company in which he was an authoritarian boss and accountable to no one. And, he never had to get his hands dirty with anything because he had ‘fixers’ like Roy Cohn, Michael Cohen, Rudy Giuliani and a host of other lawyers and enforcers to take care of those distasteful tasks for him. He has never run a public company where he had to be accountable to a Board of Directors. He has never run any type of government entity. He has never been in the military. In short, he has never really had to be a ‘leader’. Don’t confuse ‘being the boss’ with ‘being a leader’. They are not the same thing. A leader is able to motivate a team of people to accomplish a goal. A boss orders people around, oftentimes under duress.
In Dale Carnegie’s book, “How to Win Friends and Influence People”, there is a list of leadership traits.
- Begin with praise and honest appreciation
- Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly
- Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person
- Ask questions instead of giving orders
- Let the other person save face
- Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be “hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise.”
- Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to
- Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
- Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest
Compare that list to Donald Trump’s behavior. There is not one thing on that list that is even remotely consistent with Trump’s behavior.
A leader is able to clearly articulate a strategy, assemble and motivate a diverse team of people, encourage honest feedback from those people regardless of whether or not that information is popular, and motivate the team to work towards a goal.
In my experience, a true leader understands that when a project or effort is successful, it’s because of a team of people that did the heavy lifting. The team gets the credit. The leader’s job is simply to clearly articulate a strategy or plan, ‘run interference’ and give everyone on the team the motivation and tools necessary to do their jobs to the best of their ability. It is always a team win.
On the other hand, when things go poorly or when there are problems, the leader owns those problems and steps up and takes responsibility for them. No one wants excuses, finger pointing or lies. It is the leader’s responsibility to own the problem, put together a top-notch team, come up with a plan based upon the best available data and expert advice, and solve the problem.
Trump has it completely backwards. He always takes sole credit for anything good that happens (sometimes when he hasn’t even had anything to do with it!) and when there are problems, he completely absolves himself of all responsibility, looks for scapegoats and starts the ‘blame game’ that we have all come to know.
In ‘Trump World’ before he became president, he was the king of his empire. No one questioned him. He was accountable to no one. He owned properties and those properties were occupied by tenants or were luxury country clubs where the wealthy hung out, played golf and hob-nobbed with other members of the ‘wealth club.’ If tenants didn’t pay up, they were evicted. If properties didn’t make money, they were sold (or filed for bankruptcy). And if people in ‘Trump World’ displeased Trump in any way, “You’re fired!”
And now, Trump views the United States of America as his latest property acquisition (perhaps more like a plantation!) and he is trying to govern the same way he ran his business – unaccountable to anyone, using Federal officers to keep the place neat and tidy, expecting the property to be profitable for him (and a few rich friends!), expecting everyone around him to agree with and essentially idolize him and be thankful that we are ‘allowed’ to live on his property, and stay quietly in our places as tenants on his property. It should surprise no one that this is the way he views the world and the way he governs. He doesn’t know anything else. And that’s probably why he is so adamant to build ‘the wall’ – he wants to emblazon it with neon signs that say ‘Trump’ like on all of his other properties!!
But the country needs more than a landlord! This country needs a leader – a person who is able to bring people together rather than divide them; a person who is able to clearly articulate a strategy (Make America Great Again is a slogan, not a strategy!); a person who welcomes and respects diverse opinions; a person who wants to make the lives of EVERY single person living in this country better; and America needs a person who is more interested in leading a nation through a crisis than in worrying about scoring points for the next election.
Donald Trump is not a leader by almost any measure. He is a landlord. Welcome to Trump World! And if this man is re-elected, American democracy as we have known it (warts and all) for over two hundred years will likely be ‘Gone With The Wind’. And Trump will simply respond, “Frankly, people, I don’t give a damn!”